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  • Are Fantasies Ruining Your Sex Life?

    Are Fantasies Ruining Your Sex Life?

    FANTASIES ARE EVERYWHERE, THE NEW BLACK! WHAT ARE YOUR FANTASIES? WHO IS IN YOUR FANTASIES? The dictionary says fantasies are: imagination, especially when extravagant and unrestrained. the forming of mental images, especially wondrous or strange fancies; imaginative conceptualizing. a mental image, especially when unreal or fantastic; vision: a nightmare fantasy. By now we have all heard…

  • Is your sex programmed? The art and subtlety of sex

    Is your sex programmed? The art and subtlety of sex

    We all know that we are pretty much programmed; what we watch, what we listen to, what we choose to eat, the events that we attend, friends we hang out with.  We are obsessed with what is the latest craze, buzz and if we are not in it we have FOMO (Fear of Missing Out).…

  • Authentic Relating – Staying Connected when things get tough

    Authentic Relating – Staying Connected when things get tough

    Relationships are all smooth sailing – aren’t they… Full of rosebuds, sun shining brightly, gentle breezes and rainbows That is the fairy tale that we are brought up on, that we aspire to and what we believe in.  But like all things in life we generally do not learn and experience personal growth when only…

  • Before YOU have the AFFAIR – READ THIS!

    Before YOU have the AFFAIR – READ THIS!

    Whilst you probably think I am going to be all judgmental, come down on you and tell you not to have the affair – that may not be the case. Although after reading this you might be more informed about why you are thinking about an affair, so making conscious decisions. Affairs are exciting aren’t…

  • 3 Ways to enhance your relationship – Ignite the magic.  

    3 Ways to enhance your relationship – Ignite the magic.  

    Who believes relationships should be magic? Who wants more intimacy and connection? As mammals we are designed to desire connection, no matter how independent we want to think we are, our innate longing is connection. We are coming up to Valentines day, how is everyone feeling? Excited / Nervous / Anticipation / Don’t really care…

  • Who is the GIFT for?

    Who is the GIFT for?

    Are you really gifting YOURSELF? As we move away from Christmas and into Valentines Day… Who is the gift for? Do you like giving gifts? Do you think they are a waste of time? Why do you buy gifts? Having a discussion last week over coffee we were discussing sex toys (as you do) and…

  • 10 Reasons To Have Your YONI(Vulva) Mapped and How It Can Heal.

    10 Reasons To Have Your YONI(Vulva) Mapped and How It Can Heal.

    In ancient times women had temples, to heal, to learn, to weave their magic. Thetemples were safe places for knowledge transference, womb stories, and the sharing of the mystic mysteries of women and their genitals. Over time, these practices have disappeared and nowadays the only time women (if ever they do) speak of such parts…

  • New Shocking Survey reveals 1 in 10 people look at their phones during sex?

    New Shocking Survey reveals 1 in 10 people look at their phones during sex?

    I thought this was a joke, I was chatting with a friend and discussing addictions to phones, devices etc and my friend said ‘I bet they are looking at them during sex’ and as you do in these situations… you ask google and I did, google had pages of information, with Surveys, facts and figures…

  • 4 Alternatives To Hollywood Movies For Intimate Education

    4 Alternatives To Hollywood Movies For Intimate Education

    Would you use the movies for driving education, imagine using Fast and Furious for your next drive to the shop, for all our sakes I am hoping you are saying: “No” Watching these movies is entertainment, an escape from reality yet in our intimate relations we desire the opposite, we are mammals we are designed…

  • Increase your sexual connection through masterful touch

    Increase your sexual connection through masterful touch

     So excited to be featured as a Sexpert on Adult Match Maker and included in their blogs. Touch is so important, the quality and how do we ask and receive the touch we crave and desire.  Share with your friends, try out the tips and let me know how you went – love to hear.…